
The Executive Director of a Non-Governmental Organisation, Media Concern Initiative-for Women and Children (MEDIACON), Princess Olufemi-Kayode in her speech which was held at Ogba Lagos, said the cases of Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) which the organisation has been monitoring is alarmingly on the increase in Nigeria.
According to Olufemi-Kayode, most often, people who sexually abuse children are those who are familiar to the children. The victims of CSA have in most cases pointed at people who they know, trust and they look up to, as responsible for acts of sexual abuse on them. Such people include immediate family members, neigbours, drivers, house maids, lesson teachers and visiting relatives.
The organisation therefore urges parents and guardians to be on the alert and regularly watch out for strange sexual behaviours in their wards for early detection and appropriate corrective actions if their children are undergoing any form of sexual abuse.
Throwing more light on the consequences of sexually abusing a child, MEDIACON affirms that most children who have been sexually abused exhibit werid and inappropriate sexual behaviours when they grow up. Some begin to visit brothels, while some engage in pornography and prostitution and other deadly vices which have been the ruin of our society today.
Princess Olufemi-Kayode goal is to break the silence about the sexual abuse of children in Nigeria. She raises public awareness and seeks institutional support to meet the needs of abused children and to prevent the long-term effects of abuse from seeping into the health, safety, and productivity of Nigerian society.
Leveraging her position as a public figure, Princess reaches out nationwide through print and television media to children who may be suffering abuse and to family members at a loss about how to address the problem. From practical information such as identifying the non-physical symptoms of abuse to decrying media mishandling of abuse cases, Princess shifts the dialogue away from family stigma towards individual healing. This effort exposes the problem and brings children’s experiences to light. She knows that this shift in perception and behavior is the first step to mitigating the long-term consequences of sexual abuse.
Princess capitalizes on the opportunity to not just expose, but begin to treat and solve the issue of child sexual abuse. She launched a hotline with a national referral network to begin to process and support the groundswell of need. In addition, Princess has developed a crisis center model that completes her vision to focus more skilled attention on the immediate safety and long-term health of sexually abused children. The crisis center will address the need for medical care, emergency shelter, forensic lab work, and the training of competent child mental health professionals. As more sexually abused children begin to speak out and heal thanks to her interventions, Princess is constructing a national network of allies to facilitate the replication of the crisis center model and serve as champions across the country.



